Why are you giving advice?

Why are you giving advice?

You have to advise yourself. Not to those around.

Why do you feel like giving advice to others? You tend to expect change from others. You don't expect any change from you.

If you want to make a change in yourself, you have to give advice to yourself.

Try making a change for yourself. It will make a difference in others too. You don't have to do anything to make that change.

If you create change in yourself, it will manifest itself. You don't have to give it as advice. No need to campaign.

It is the reflection of the hidden bad qualities in each of us that prompts us to counsel others.

If everyone changed their bad habits then no one would need to advise anyone.

Now do you think I am right? That's why I say don't give advice. The instructions given in the textbooks are sufficient. The advice given by this community is sufficient.

Be the model for those instructions. Rather than giving advice, being a model for advice is like giving advice with many times the intensity.

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