Why are we abandoned?

Why are we abandoned?

It is said that tolerance is declining in today's world. That's right. It remains to be seen if there are any ways to maximize tolerance. But it seems that traveling that way is no longer so easy.

The only way to be tolerant of human beings today is to try to live as a joint family at the family level. If you ask me how a person who leaves the joint family be tolerant? How can a person who cannot be tolerant within a family be tolerant in society?

If there are some embarrassments in the joint family then there are more psychological problems than when leaving the joint family.

The peace of mind that comes with embracing one another within a family cannot be found anywhere else in the world. The feeling they get when they adapt to each other creates the best harmony in the community.

I would say that the worst human violence in this century was the deliberate disruption of the joint family system for economic reasons.

Old age homes, old age pension schemes, childcare centers, etc. are all sufficient evidence to show the breakdown of the joint family.

Families are beautifully taught to talk, to behave, to attend to opinions, and to refuse the right. These persons want to get rid of the joint family and get paid in courses that are communication skills.

Another surprise is that in joint families with grandparents cannot see the child growing up with the father and mother. If that too becomes aunties and uncles the children will choose their loved ones and grow up with them. It is the love and affection that are lacking in youth that can give them the strength to endure any crisis as they grow.

Children who grow up in an environment lack of trust, love and affection are more likely to develop psychological disorders later in life.

If we say that there are more problems and challenges around us today, we are the ones who created it. The joint family and the joint way of life teach many of the characteristics of social competence that can be taught in an unknown way. That is how human beings learn tolerance without realizing it. We expect to scatter opportunities for that and teach it in schools and colleges.

Everything can be taught in schools and colleges. But we have to learn the joint family way of life. We have to do it ourselves to maintain the attitude of joining. Otherwise we can’t prevent ourselves from being abandoned.

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